Been trying to brainstorm the qualities of the woman I wanna be, put it out in the universe and really focus on creating her.

• I am going to be the woman who walks in a room and everyone feels the energy. A good energy.
• I am going to be the woman that nobody wants to fuck with because I set healthy boundaries and know my worth, but I’m also very soft inside, understanding and welcoming, and am strong enough to support the people who need my love.
• I am going to be the woman who never second guesses myself and never gives up on always trying to be the best version of myself possible. 
• I am going to be the woman who puts myself first. My health, my fitness, my needs, my ideas. I will stop fighting for a spot at other peoples’ tables when they wont welcome me at their own. I will not be the people-pleaser.
• I am going to be the woman who found my tortured and traumatized inner child. I will nurture her, forgive her, support her, heal her and fight for her peace. I will actively seek activities that connect me to her and remind me to have fun. Things that ground me and make us both happy. 
• I am going to be the driven woman I used to be. Unstoppable. Works hard for what I want and wont stop until I get it. 
• I am going to be the woman who accepts the things I hate about myself because I can’t change them. I will learn how to work around what my DNA restricts in me. I will find love in clothing, I will find my style and I will feel attractive to myself more often than not. 
• I am going to be an enchanted woman. Maintaining grace even when a storm rages inside me.
• I am going to be the woman who communicates confidently. Who doesn’t shy away from conflict because I am so self assured and understand that some conflict is necessary for a resolution. I can still sympathize that me speaking my mind may hurt peoples feelings but I will no longer be sacrificing my own inner peace because of it.
• I am going to be the woman who is disciplined. I will allow for bad days and sad thoughts but they will not overrun me and I will push to always be better for myself and hold myself accountable for my toxic behaviour whether its towards others or self-sabotage. 
• I am already the woman, and will continue to be the woman who thanks those who help me. The people who use their time to to make something in my life a little easier. No matter the size of the gesture. I am the woman who needs people to know their actions didn’t go unnoticed and are greatly appreciated.

I will add more as I think of them.